My wife much prefers a S&W 357 loaded with 38's over a 380 or 9 mm compact. It's a heavier gun and has less slap at the shot. Something to consider, especially if you have a petite wife. Mine ain't petite but she still likes the larger framed (heavier) revolver.

If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land. 2 Chronicles 7:14