Man I went thru it when I was younger. That short time in my life my lead to a lot of regrets. DO WHAT MY DAD DID!!! Hold your son down and pray over/with him ( I don’t care how big he is). My dad did and it opened my eyes. If he was that concerned then maybe I should be. I was a lucky teenager that my dad cared. Get everyone involved. My cousin who is like my big brother got involved (yes he’s on this site). Once I saw the light I almost immediately met my wife, have 2 great kids and been married for 14yrs. Great wife and mother. I don’t know you but praying for you and your family brother!!