I spent $17k just on temporary hearing, vacating the bogus PFA before mine resolved. The temporary order which took 41 days to get to thanks to her attorney jocking etc gave me 4 days a month for for 76% of my after tax income how the hell is that even possible anywhere but Alabama?

There is a way to fight it if she is dependent on your income but it’s really nasty and will cause a lot of harm, but I made sure mine understood if we ever went that way again that it’s exactly what I would do. Your visitation is guaranteed, her CS is a function of your income 30% of zero is zero. If you are unemployed she gets no CS, insurance, or alimony. This is an evil way to fight it as it exposes your children to heart ache and risk, but if you truely have no other choice it can make a difference but be sure you are committed to an all our war before taking this approach.


Life is difficult
Science prevails over bulldoodoo and superstition every time