I don’t think the government should be in marriage either but it is. Christians are called to be salt and light to this world. Salt, meaning to preserve/keep from spoiling. So I will always be against that which will lead to the further degradation of our society. Now if you don’t believe that then that’s fine but telling me that gay marriage doesn’t effect me so why care Is like saying there’s a whole in the ship letting in water but since it’s not in my state room I shouldn’t worry about it.