A friend of mine always says in conversations like this that “all women are whores except for my momma and you’ll have to ask my daddy about her”.

I will say I experienced Wiley’s original premise personally as have many others on here and beyond, and yeah, it happens both ways, male and female, and I don’t care who you are nor the marriage situation you’re in, if you’re taking the pos route of being a cheater you deserve all the boils of life. If you are so desperate to destroy your family for your own personal satisfaction the least you can do is attempt to amicable walk away without leaving the stench that infidelity leaves behind, especially if kids are involved. I thoroughly despise the “life’s to short” or “I deserve to be happy” crap as a justifiable reason to cheat on your spouse. It takes many spouses/children/families years to recover from such a self serving act. Have the decency to try to part ways without all the hurt and anger you’ll leave behind otherwise.