Originally Posted by Wiley Coyote
How does a whore, in good conscience(if there is such a combination of things), legitimize the destruction of a family just because she thinks sex is THE most important thing in life? I've been witness to this, personally, on 4 different occasions and just don't understand the mentality that overrides logic where one half of the marriage is 100% committed to family and future of the kids and one just up and dumps it all, THEN expects ALL to be forgiven when she admits to/gets caught in infidelity and brings a strange man into all the associated families. And I'm talking about bringing another man into full view just as papers are signed. Do they just not have a soul? How do they not see the permanent damage done to kids, kin and the ex spouse? It's like they took a jug of spoiled milk back to the store and swapped it for a fresh jug and they NEVER give it another thought. And it turns out that the first jug wasn't spoiled at all.

Men are just as guilty of that behavior. Mistresses were the norm for many years in certain socio-economic circles.