^^^ This

The songs are supposed to be praise and worship based with the focus on God, not us. If your focus is on worshipping him you should be able to do that in either style. Too many churches are tripping over things that don't matter like the color of the carpet or the song set list instead of putting the focus where it is supposed to be. Sometimes , the preaching that follows the singing is just as geared toward pleasing the congregation as the song choices.