This entire thing boils down to two things for me.
1. I don't sit on the can with my wife in the room much less some other female.
2. We have a 9 yr old grand daughter. If we are shopping and she has to go I can't take her to the restroom entrance and wait outside. Wife would have to take her. Cause if any swinging cod piece can be in there I'm gonna want to do a cup check before letting the princess go in.

"Arguing on the internet is like playing chess with a pigeon. You may be good at chess, but the pigeon is just going to knock all the pieces down, take a crap on the table, and strut around like its victorious."--Anonymous