I know, it's hard not to. I sure ain't condescending to anybody, I lose my sense about it too. Certain I wouldn't be so understanding if it was MY kid either. It was just a topic that got really heated in our small group (Sunday School) one time a few years ago, just struck me in a bad way. This was when that woman Casey Anthony was found not guilty of her daughter's death. Several folks in class that morning were talking about it before we started and I heard somebody say "there's a special place in Hell for people like her". As the teacher I felt an immediate reaction to address it, which went over like a fart in church (pun intended). I said, "We are sitting INSIDE the church, about to teach about fallen man and holy God's grace, yet we are wishing someone into Hell???" The heart of man is a dark, dark place.