No one here knows the real story. You can never really know a person until you live with them. He already feels the shame since he text you again. This is between him & his wife & the Good Lord. We'll all have to answer for our shortcomings one day & I bet you'll have your own list to deal with same as the rest of us. Delete the text, don't tell your wife or anyone else & most important....don't put the story on the internet.


"When you've stared down the barrel of a shotgun in your own home, 3rd & 20 don't seem too bad"......Ken "Snake" Stabler