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Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048829
02/21/20 05:09 PM
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Glad you are in a better place now.


What you do today, you have to sleep with tonight.
Re: Checking in [Re: Out back] #3048830
02/21/20 05:09 PM
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Grays Creek, NC
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Originally Posted by Out back
Just know that you're not alone and nothing you're feeling is exclusive to you.
Lots of us have been there, still there, or struggling to get out of there.

It’s a long bumpy road, just taking one step at a time


"You cant manage a deer herd with acorns."

-Dr. Craig Harper

Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048831
02/21/20 05:12 PM
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Clanton, AL
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Originally Posted by bigcountry692001
Originally Posted by Out back
A word of advice... Don't trust the VA and don't answer any of their personal questions.

I had them refer me to a civilian doc since I have tricare prime. The little I dealt with them wasn’t bad. They did get me pointed in the right direction.

I've had terrific care from VA doctors and nurses. It's the administration that is the problem.
And I've got a couple of honest doctors who tell me the truth. The VA makes them ask certain questions and fill out certain forms that you don't want to get your name on.


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Re: Checking in [Re: crocker] #3048832
02/21/20 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted by crocker
Great news man! Thanks for checking in.

Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048834
02/21/20 05:17 PM
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On the bayou
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Hang in there Dewayne. Glad you are in a better place. Continued prayers

Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048847
02/21/20 05:31 PM
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just south of the Tennesse riv...
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PTSD is an insidious bastard. It never completely goes away. You might learn how to manage it, how to keep it back a safe distance like a dangerous caged wild animal, but its always waiting, always watching for an opportunity to escape and attack. You never forget the dead and ghosts don't die. They will always be with you. Key is to not let them take over. When you are old, like me, you have had more time to put between you and then. It makes a difference. I wrote a story and posted it here a long time ago named " My Cousin Sarah". Its about a Vietnam vet and part of it is how he handles PTSD. I trashed all of the stories a long time ago but maybe somebody here can find it. Good luck with everything.

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Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048854
02/21/20 05:46 PM
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Just be careful what you say to any Doctor Jamie. if you say the wrong thing you could find yourself unable to possess any firearm.


Thomas Jefferson. The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.

Life is too short to only hunt and fish on weekends!

If being a dumbass was fatal some of you would be on your death bed!

Re: Checking in [Re: perchjerker] #3048857
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Originally Posted by perchjerker
Just be careful what you say to any Doctor Jamie. if you say the wrong thing you could find yourself unable to possess any firearm.


Very good point. And extremely relevant.

Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048867
02/21/20 06:15 PM
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Just know youre not alone in this that there are many of us just as you described and we found help pretty much the same way
I'm here if you need to talk or need someone to pray with you


When I need expert advice I tend to talk to myself
The older I get the better I used to be
Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048872
02/21/20 06:28 PM
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Good news

Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048873
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Great to see you back Dewayne!!


"Don't let a dead deer kill ya"
Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048875
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Best news I've read in a awhile. It takes guts to admit you need help and even more to go get it. Good on you, buddy!


"Political debate: when charlatans come together to discuss their principles"
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Bauvard
Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048876
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God bless you! Praying that things just get better and better.


I firmly believe that a double gallows should be constructed on the East Lawn of The White House. Politicians who willfully and shamelessly violate their oath to uphold and defend the Constitution of the United States of America should be swiftly tried and, upon conviction, publicly hanged at sunup the day after conviction. If multiple convicts are to be hanged they can choose with whom to share the gallows or names shall be drawn from the hangman's hat to be hanged 2 at a time.




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Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048881
02/21/20 06:41 PM
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Thats great to hear Bigcountry. Im glad youre starting to feel better. Keep it up !

Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048892
02/21/20 06:55 PM
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Depressions a killer thief. Steals your happiness then kills you. Glad you got help. Strong as depression is on my bad days 40mg of citalopram and God's grace and mercy picks me up. Tough times don't last tough people do.


Skinny is my EX.Alcohol was involved.
Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048902
02/21/20 07:05 PM
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Good to hear.

Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048913
02/21/20 07:26 PM
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Glad you got some help. PTSD is a real thing. Hang in there and your quality of life will continue to improve

Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048916
02/21/20 07:28 PM
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hallelujah!


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Re: Checking in [Re: James] #3048920
02/21/20 07:33 PM
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Originally Posted by James
Originally Posted by GomerPyle

Good on ya for seeking out help. Not a thing in the world wrong with that at all.



Amen to that

Re: Checking in [Re: bigcountry692001] #3048921
02/21/20 07:34 PM
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Glad that you realized something was going on. Nobody knows our bodies better than we do. I personally went thru a valley last year and reached out for help. Nothing wrong to seek help. Hang in there and the days will get better. God Bless

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