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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
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09/12/19 03:09 PM
09/12/19 03:09 PM
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In front of my lathe
gundoc
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In front of my lathe
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I know what you're going through. Mine is now 26. Fortunately, as bad as his mother didn't want to, if there was discipline needed she could not seem to enforce she'd call me. She knew that if she was right I'd back her up. Even though I only saw him 4 days a month and 30 days during the summer I was at school functions and baseball, etc...
Also, my ex would let my Mom get him some too, and since we lived close, I spent time with him then as well.
Last edited by gundoc; 09/12/19 03:09 PM.
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
#2902713
09/12/19 05:25 PM
09/12/19 05:25 PM
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Sylvania Alabama
Sandmtnslayer
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What I want to know is how much drugs did those of you dads that have full custody have to plant in order to get this said custody... but for real I am happy for those of you that have this. The state of Alabama needs to get with the program and allow those that are not dead beat dads to have more parental influence. I know that is right.......... Let me know how... Fought mine tooth and nail in court I guess I just was lucky but after I got custody she came to see them 13 times in 15 yrs so go figure why she wanted custody. I did ask for a drug test and offered to take one and she wouldn't so that probably helped
Not all Indians were hunters some toted firewood
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: joshm28]
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09/12/19 06:28 PM
09/12/19 06:28 PM
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North Alabama
Wiley Coyote
Freak of Nature
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Go back to court for more visitation. This! Don't just assume that you're beat before you try. YOU have to fight for what YOU want and for the best thing for your child. GO FIGHT!!!! I got custody of my son when my ex decided she wanted to sleep in more than one bed on a regular basis. That was in 1989 and everybody told me that I was crazy for trying. It cost me $600. Yes you read that right, $600.00
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: sj22]
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09/12/19 06:35 PM
09/12/19 06:35 PM
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ArmPit of the south
DeerNutz0U812_
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That’s awful man! Couldn’t imagine not seeing mine everyday. Praying for ya buddy
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: Wiley Coyote]
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09/12/19 06:46 PM
09/12/19 06:46 PM
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trailertrash
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Go back to court for more visitation. This! Don't just assume that you're beat before you try. YOU have to fight for what YOU want and for the best thing for your child. GO FIGHT!!!! I got custody of my son when my ex decided she wanted to sleep in more than one bed on a regular basis. That was in 1989 and everybody told me that I was crazy for trying. It cost me $600. Yes you read that right, $600.00 x2 Cost me about $2000 but I got my boys. Got to fight!
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
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09/12/19 08:15 PM
09/12/19 08:15 PM
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Sulli
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I know exactly what you are talking about. Ex 1 had an affair after 10 1/2 years of marriage and the pos judge gave her custody and ordered me to pay child support. ZERO influence as a 4 day a month parent and it becomes harder to get that time when they become teenagers because they want to be with their friends (we live 2 hours apart). I have 2 daughters 21 and 17 from the first round and we we spend as much time together as we can but I missed so much. Oh and the great mom the judge gave custody is about to get married for the 5th yes you read correctly 5 the time. I got remarried and had a so. And 4 1/2 years into it same crap just different woman. A year after we divorced she decided to move to Tennessee and away she went regardless of the laws against it. After waiting 9 months to go to court over it the judge asked how dare I put her through all this let her stay and ordered a 330% increase in child support. Pay just shy of $2k/month in cs plus insurance. Family court royally screws men in Alabama and I have zero respect for the legal folks I’ve had to deal with.
ROLL TIDE!!!!!!
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: Wiley Coyote]
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09/12/19 09:09 PM
09/12/19 09:09 PM
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Calhoun County
jrs89
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Go back to court for more visitation. This! Don't just assume that you're beat before you try. YOU have to fight for what YOU want and for the best thing for your child. GO FIGHT!!!! I got custody of my son when my ex decided she wanted to sleep in more than one bed on a regular basis. That was in 1989 and everybody told me that I was crazy for trying. It cost me $600. Yes you read that right, $600.00 I have about $20k in 3 custody battles...... it ain’t cheap anymore. I’m only 30 and he’s 7. It’s just money. I’ll go in debit again tomorrow for him if I need to!
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: Sulli]
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09/12/19 09:23 PM
09/12/19 09:23 PM
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Northeast Al
mackdaddy
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I know exactly what you are talking about. Ex 1 had an affair after 10 1/2 years of marriage and the pos judge gave her custody and ordered me to pay child support. ZERO influence as a 4 day a month parent and it becomes harder to get that time when they become teenagers because they want to be with their friends (we live 2 hours apart). I have 2 daughters 21 and 17 from the first round and we we spend as much time together as we can but I missed so much. Oh and the great mom the judge gave custody is about to get married for the 5th yes you read correctly 5 the time. I got remarried and had a so. And 4 1/2 years into it same crap just different woman. A year after we divorced she decided to move to Tennessee and away she went regardless of the laws against it. After waiting 9 months to go to court over it the judge asked how dare I put her through all this let her stay and ordered a 330% increase in child support. Pay just shy of $2k/month in cs plus insurance. Family court royally screws men in Alabama and I have zero respect for the legal folks I’ve had to deal with. Preach it brother alabama is one of the worst states on men in divorce
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
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09/12/19 09:46 PM
09/12/19 09:46 PM
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Shotts
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I spent $17k just on temporary hearing, vacating the bogus PFA before mine resolved. The temporary order which took 41 days to get to thanks to her attorney jocking etc gave me 4 days a month for for 76% of my after tax income how the hell is that even possible anywhere but Alabama?
There is a way to fight it if she is dependent on your income but it’s really nasty and will cause a lot of harm, but I made sure mine understood if we ever went that way again that it’s exactly what I would do. Your visitation is guaranteed, her CS is a function of your income 30% of zero is zero. If you are unemployed she gets no CS, insurance, or alimony. This is an evil way to fight it as it exposes your children to heart ache and risk, but if you truely have no other choice it can make a difference but be sure you are committed to an all our war before taking this approach.
Life is difficult
Science prevails over bulldoodoo and superstition every time
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: Wiley Coyote]
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09/12/19 10:03 PM
09/12/19 10:03 PM
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Marion, Fayette, Lamar, piddli...
Lonster
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Go back to court for more visitation. This! Don't just assume that you're beat before you try. YOU have to fight for what YOU want and for the best thing for your child. GO FIGHT!!!! I got custody of my son when my ex decided she wanted to sleep in more than one bed on a regular basis. That was in 1989 and everybody told me that I was crazy for trying. It cost me $600. Yes you read that right, $600.00 That was a bargain. $600.00 today will get you 2 hours of an attorney’s time.
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
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09/12/19 10:13 PM
09/12/19 10:13 PM
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Posts: 25,776
Fayetteville TN Via Selma
jawbone
Freak of Nature
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If grades and discipline are getting worse it might be time to go to court to revisit the custody arrangement, especially if he isn't even living with your wife.
Lord, please help us get our nation straightened out.
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
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09/13/19 08:12 AM
09/13/19 08:12 AM
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Alabama
buck_buster
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Alabama
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