If women were completely honest and financially able (which they are becoming more and more open/able by the year), then marriage rates will plummet to well below 50% because most men will not be able to reach a woman's hypergamous standards. Also, male beautification ie weight-lifting, tanning, dressing better, etc. will become more and more common as men can't expect sexual interest just by having a decent job. Women want to marry men that are at a minimum their social equal if not preferably well above them physically and financially. Its just facts same as men preferring young, busty women for gestating babies.

She dont want to be saved.

Also, the slut walks, women's marches, sleep around culture that is proliferating will have deleterious effects on long-term pair bonding. There are studies indicating the more women sleep around the less and less likely they are to stay married. Again, not saying women can't do everything they want, just being aware. What is and will continue to happen is that women will spend their teens and twenties having as much sex with whomever they feel like and then attempt to marry the best provider men that managed to get good jobs by their late 20s. A woman can start a career, be wild and free, marry a high earner, and when bored, divorce him and collect checks, date around again, etc. The social system went from men viewing women as property to women viewing men as assets...husband provides money and stability, thirsty dumbasses online provide social media attention and validation, non-committal player types provide sex (women are attracted to men that other women are attracted to, but these men are harder lock down because they have options). It is much easier for a woman to have a roster of men satisfying various needs than vice versa.

Post up pictures so we can draw our own conclusions

Threads like these get derailed quickly around here. Good stuff that aldeer.

I feel like this one has actually stayed relatively on course.

I do think more women are running around nowadays than there were back in the day. Women today are not only capable of supporting themselves, but a lot are the breadwinners for the family. Trust me when I say there are plenty of married women putting it out there.

Oh, and Snapchat is the devil, if your wife has it make her delete it.

Social media has made cheating SO much easier than just a phone.

Yup. Why talk things out when you can pull up a dating app and have 100 guys to pick from within 20 miles? Hubby ain't going anywhere without the state getting involved to make sure you are taken care of you goddess. Guys are just clueless sitting ducks.

It ain’t dating apps, it’s Snapchat and other social media. There’s way too many ways to find people you had a casual encounter with nowadays. If a guy can get a chick to talk on Snapchat or instagram they can bust dem draws, guaranteed.

You obviously arent aware of tinder or bumble. I'm 26. I know all the stupid chit my cohorts are in to.

My wife and I met in the 9th grade, she was in the 8th. We liked each other as young teenagers. When she came to high school after her junior high years, we reconnected and dated for a while. I got involved in the hippie drug culture, music, and all the stuff in the late 60's and early 70's. She wouldn't have anything to do with me, but there was something between us that never died. In 1972, I became a born-again Christian. I was truly transformed. We reconnected again, and was married in a few short months. She was a Christian as well. We know that we are soul-mates, and were put together by the Lord. I began pastoring churches when I was 20 years old, and have continued to this day. We just finished 44 years of ministry, having served other people, and the Lord Jesus Christ all of our married lives. We know God put us together for a purpose, and we have realized it all these years. She is truly my best friend, and I trust her with all my heart, and she feels the same way. She is still the love of my life and the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen. I have never seen a woman that measures up to her. I couldn't bear to hurt her, nor could she bear to hurt me in such a manner. I give all the glory to the Lord Jesus. I have seen so many fall by the wayside in this matter of adultery, but it can be avoided if your home is built on the right foundation...

Luke 6:47  Whosoever cometh to me, and heareth my sayings, and doeth them, I will shew you to whom he is like:
48  He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock.

Oh I’m aware of those for sure, and no doubt they’re used but they are way more risky. All a chick needs is social media to put the ball in motion.

Sooo what some of y'all are saying is, you have good wives, as long as they stay away from social media?

That is dang sure what it sounds like. Better lock them in the house to so they can’t talk to anybody either.

Great post.. Happy for you and your wife

Well the title of this thread is about whores and I don’t think you can ever change a whore. Average housewives may or may not be faithful because there’s so many things that impact a woman’s way of thinking. Men are mostly physical, if he likes the way a woman looks he’s turned on. Women are different and there’s no telling what they’re seeking in an affair. For that reason I think the sexual part of an affair for a woman may be as much payment for other types of attention as anything. I know several women who are married to very successful men who tried it just because they finally got what they wanted and thought “is this really my life now, two kids to help with homework?” I think social media make tiny improper convos possible and that’s where the seed is planted with the average wife. Whores are gonna whore but many a faithful wife has been led astray because of a crack in the door.

Temptation is everywhere. If they’ll do it because of Facebook they’ll do it at the grocery store.

If you can drag ass at the grocery store then you have a special game. 99% of women aren’t going to sleep with someone after a 5 minute conversation. Social media makes it easier to find casual encounters and work afterwards.