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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: Irishguy]
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02/12/19 10:04 AM
02/12/19 10:04 AM
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Posts: 18,142 North AL
AU338MAG
Old Mossy Horns
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I don't believe this behavior is strictly limited to women. There are plenty of men that cheat on otherwise faithful wives.
My second wife cheated on me. I got the house and custody of all my kids. I gave her a lump sum of cash, a Jeep and $1000 a month for 4 years, just to get rid of her so I could try to pick up the pieces and put things back together. She blew through all of that money in no time, and karma caught up with her bad. Four years later, she was out of money and living in a shitty little rent trailer in Westover. She had a baby out of wedlock with another guy (different from the one she cheated with) He turned out to be a drug addict and he left her with no no money and no child support.
During this time I met and fell in love with Mrs. Irish. She was a single mom when we met. One day she had compassion on my ex-wife even though she didn't deserve it. Mrs. Irish took it upon herself to buy up a bunch of groceries with her own money and take a hand full of her own hard earned cash down there personally to help my ex-wife feed herself and the kid and pay her bills. You talk about the Lord humbling a person... I'll tell you my ex-wife was humbled to the point of seeing Christ though Mrs. Irish that day. That one act magnified the difference between my ex-wife and the woman that God sent to me to spend the rest of our lives together. If I remember correctly she even kept giving her some money every month after that for a while to help her out. That is a Proverbs 31 woman right there friends.
I am convinced that though it all, God has finally sent me the woman that I was supposed to have all along, but it took me until 12 years ago to finally be ready for her in God's eyes.
Sometimes we, as men, have to change ourselves and humble ourselves, and then and only then will God will grant us the woman that he wants us to have. Wow, just wow. That is powerful Irishguy. I have to admit reading that brought a tear to my eye. You have a great woman with you.
Dying ain't much of a living boy...Josey Wales
Molon Labe
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: whack-n-stack]
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02/12/19 10:15 AM
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I got a buddy who’s wife is cheating on him with the preacher that married them. Run up his credit cards, sneaking out at night, giving him the whole nine yards. He’s kept his head through all of it, setting up everything so when he does file for divorce, it’s on his terms. Hate to tell you/him, but it won't be on his terms. Worse case she gets 50% of everything regardless of who's at fault.
not sure what the best way to handle them is but they shouldnt be on tv and gettn married and raisin kids
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: AUstan23]
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02/12/19 10:23 AM
02/12/19 10:23 AM
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Posts: 30,910 Clanton, AL
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Two questions:
If a husband cheats, is it his fault?
If a wife cheats, is it her fault? I'd say, "not necessarily". I strongly believe that no one, male or female, should live without affection simply because they are married. We all joke about the wedding cake killing a bride's libido. But in many cases the sex life does suffer, at some point, after the wedding. And it isn't always the bride, either. The fact is, the spouse with the lowest sex drive controls the sex life. That can become a major problem, and cause serious resentment, when the two libidos become very much different. Both spouses need to be in tune with the other's needs and desires. And even if the mood isn't there, they each need to make an effort, or suffer the consequences.
My opinions and comments are my own. They do not reflect the position or political opinions of Aldeer or any of the Aldeer administration.
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: Irishguy]
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02/12/19 10:24 AM
02/12/19 10:24 AM
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Posts: 15,547 Panhandle Florida
PaschalBD
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Sometimes we, as men, have to change ourselves and humble ourselves, and then and only then will God grant us the woman that he wants us to have. This ^^^^^
A servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ.
USAF Veteran
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: ridgestalker]
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02/12/19 10:26 AM
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NWALJM
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The way I see it you swore an oath before God. In Gods eyes cheating is the one thing that you don’t have to forgive your parter for. I don’t understand how a parent can do it to their kids.Matthew 19:9,Proverbs 6:32. I don’t recall anywhere in scripture where God condones unforgiveness of any kind. As a matter of fact, the Bible explicitly says if you don’t forgive others you won’t be forgiven by God. I understand this is a sensitive issue for a lot, but if we’re going to bring it to a Biblical perspective let’s be accurate.
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: NWALJM]
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02/12/19 10:32 AM
02/12/19 10:32 AM
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Posts: 30,910 Clanton, AL
Out back
Grumpy Old Man
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The way I see it you swore an oath before God. In Gods eyes cheating is the one thing that you don’t have to forgive your parter for. I don’t understand how a parent can do it to their kids.Matthew 19:9,Proverbs 6:32. I don’t recall anywhere in scripture where God condones unforgiveness of any kind. As a matter of fact, the Bible explicitly says if you don’t forgive others you won’t be forgiven by God. I understand this is a sensitive issue for a lot, but if we’re going to bring it to a Biblical perspective let’s be accurate. The Bible is chock full of tales of adultery and bigomy.
My opinions and comments are my own. They do not reflect the position or political opinions of Aldeer or any of the Aldeer administration.
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: Out back]
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02/12/19 10:35 AM
02/12/19 10:35 AM
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Posts: 18,142 North AL
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Old Mossy Horns
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Two questions:
If a husband cheats, is it his fault?
If a wife cheats, is it her fault? I'd say, "not necessarily". I strongly believe that no one, male or female, should live without affection simply because they are married. We all joke about the wedding cake killing a bride's libido. But in many cases the sex life does suffer, at some point, after the wedding. And it isn't always the bride, either. The fact is, the spouse with the lowest sex drive controls the sex life. That can become a major problem, and cause serious resentment, when the two libidos become very much different. Both spouses need to be in tune with the other's needs and desires. And even if the mood isn't there, they each need to make an effort, or suffer the consequences. Dammit outback, I form a view of you and you go and write a sensible, logical post like this and ruin it for me.
Dying ain't much of a living boy...Josey Wales
Molon Labe
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: Out back]
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02/12/19 10:42 AM
02/12/19 10:42 AM
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Posts: 33,437 Your mom’s house
doekiller
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Two questions:
If a husband cheats, is it his fault?
If a wife cheats, is it her fault? I'd say, "not necessarily". I strongly believe that no one, male or female, should live without affection simply because they are married. We all joke about the wedding cake killing a bride's libido. But in many cases the sex life does suffer, at some point, after the wedding. And it isn't always the bride, either. The fact is, the spouse with the lowest sex drive controls the sex life. That can become a major problem, and cause serious resentment, when the two libidos become very much different. Both spouses need to be in tune with the other's needs and desires. And even if the mood isn't there, they each need to make an effort, or suffer the consequences. Very well said and I agree. However, the spouse also has the choice to end the marriage rather than cheat.
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: 257wbymag]
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02/12/19 10:56 AM
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Avengedsevenfold
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Never try to make a whore a housewife. Like Project Pat said: Don’t Save Her
Carrying a gun isn't comfortable; but at times it is comforting
"Cause the cause for the pause you think you see is really concentration on the steel” NonPoint
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: Wiley Coyote]
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02/12/19 10:56 AM
02/12/19 10:56 AM
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Posts: 3,126 KY
AUstan23
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Lot of half truths and virtue signaling in this thread.
It is easier to fool a man than to convince him he has been fooled.
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: Irishguy]
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02/12/19 11:00 AM
02/12/19 11:00 AM
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Posts: 4,753 Moody, AL
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I don't believe this behavior is strictly limited to women. There are plenty of men that cheat on otherwise faithful wives.
My second wife cheated on me. I got the house and custody of all my kids. I gave her a lump sum of cash, a Jeep and $1000 a month for 4 years, just to get rid of her so I could try to pick up the pieces and put things back together. She blew through all of that money in no time, and karma caught up with her bad. Four years later, she was out of money and living in a shitty little rent trailer in Westover. She had a baby out of wedlock with another guy (different from the one she cheated with) He turned out to be a drug addict and he left her with no no money and no child support.
During this time I met and fell in love with Mrs. Irish. She was a single mom when we met. One day she had compassion on my ex-wife even though she didn't deserve it. Mrs. Irish took it upon herself to buy up a bunch of groceries with her own money and take a hand full of her own hard earned cash down there personally to help my ex-wife feed herself and the kid and pay her bills. You talk about the Lord humbling a person... I'll tell you my ex-wife was humbled to the point of seeing Christ though Mrs. Irish that day. That one act magnified the difference between my ex-wife and the woman that God sent to me to spend the rest of our lives together. If I remember correctly she even kept giving her some money every month after that for a while to help her out. That is a Proverbs 31 woman right there friends.
I am convinced that though it all, God has finally sent me the woman that I was supposed to have all along, but it took me until 12 years ago to finally be ready for her in God's eyes.
Sometimes we, as men, have to change ourselves and humble ourselves, and then and only then will God will grant us the woman that he wants us to have. Solid post
A mans got to know his limitations.
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: Wiley Coyote]
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02/12/19 11:20 AM
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ikillbux
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In all seriousness, I'm about to turn 45 years old, I'm reasonably decent looking, and in my personal, work, and church circles I am in contact with a ton of people. I have NEVER been propositioned, at least not that I was aware of (I don't think I'm that naïve though ) I mean, yeah there's been the old skally-wag skank older wimmen who flirt and say inappropriate things (in a joking manner usually), but I'm talking about a woman of my same class/demographic whom I would find attractive and otherwise tempt me. I've NEVER been in that situation.
We were on the edge of Eternia, when the power of Greyskull began to take hold.
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: ikillbux]
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02/12/19 11:26 AM
02/12/19 11:26 AM
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Posts: 15,547 Panhandle Florida
PaschalBD
Used to be TiderBD
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In all seriousness, I'm about to turn 45 years old, I'm reasonably decent looking, and in my personal, work, and church circles I am in contact with a ton of people. I have NEVER been propositioned, at least not that I was aware of (I don't think I'm that naïve though ) I mean, yeah there's been the old skally-wag skank older wimmen who flirt and say inappropriate things (in a joking manner usually), but I'm talking about a woman of my same class/demographic whom I would find attractive and otherwise tempt me. I've NEVER been in that situation. Me either. So what does that mean? I think it means we're legends in our own minds and the reflection is not as appealing as we think.
A servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ.
USAF Veteran
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: Irishguy]
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02/12/19 11:33 AM
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MattIce
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I don't believe this behavior is strictly limited to women. There are plenty of men that cheat on otherwise faithful wives.
My second wife cheated on me. I got the house and custody of all my kids. I gave her a lump sum of cash, a Jeep and $1000 a month for 4 years, just to get rid of her so I could try to pick up the pieces and put things back together. She blew through all of that money in no time, and karma caught up with her bad. Four years later, she was out of money and living in a shitty little rent trailer in Westover. She had a baby out of wedlock with another guy (different from the one she cheated with) He turned out to be a drug addict and he left her with no no money and no child support.
During this time I met and fell in love with Mrs. Irish. She was a single mom when we met. One day she had compassion on my ex-wife even though she didn't deserve it. Mrs. Irish took it upon herself to buy up a bunch of groceries with her own money and take a hand full of her own hard earned cash down there personally to help my ex-wife feed herself and the kid and pay her bills. You talk about the Lord humbling a person... I'll tell you my ex-wife was humbled to the point of seeing Christ though Mrs. Irish that day. That one act magnified the difference between my ex-wife and the woman that God sent to me to spend the rest of our lives together. If I remember correctly she even kept giving her some money every month after that for a while to help her out. That is a Proverbs 31 woman right there friends.
I am convinced that though it all, God has finally sent me the woman that I was supposed to have all along, but it took me until 12 years ago to finally be ready for her in God's eyes.
Sometimes we, as men, have to change ourselves and humble ourselves, and then and only then will God will grant us the woman that he wants us to have. Ain't no way in hell I would ever do that
Parked in a holler, beneath the mountain moon light.
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: Out back]
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02/12/19 11:58 AM
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Posts: 3,287 Hartselle, AL
NWALJM
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The way I see it you swore an oath before God. In Gods eyes cheating is the one thing that you don’t have to forgive your parter for. I don’t understand how a parent can do it to their kids.Matthew 19:9,Proverbs 6:32. I don’t recall anywhere in scripture where God condones unforgiveness of any kind. As a matter of fact, the Bible explicitly says if you don’t forgive others you won’t be forgiven by God. I understand this is a sensitive issue for a lot, but if we’re going to bring it to a Biblical perspective let’s be accurate. The Bible is chock full of tales of adultery and bigomy. You are correct.
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: Avengedsevenfold]
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02/12/19 12:01 PM
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Never try to make a whore a housewife. Like Project Pat said: Don’t Save Her Probably the wrong crowd for Project Pat
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Re: Whores and how they try to reverse the tables
[Re: NWALJM]
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02/12/19 12:15 PM
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ridgestalker
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The way I see it you swore an oath before God. In Gods eyes cheating is the one thing that you don’t have to forgive your parter for. I don’t understand how a parent can do it to their kids.Matthew 19:9,Proverbs 6:32. I don’t recall anywhere in scripture where God condones unforgiveness of any kind. As a matter of fact, the Bible explicitly says if you don’t forgive others you won’t be forgiven by God. I understand this is a sensitive issue for a lot, but if we’re going to bring it to a Biblical perspective let’s be accurate. I meant that you don’t have to forgive and let it go. It states it’s the only grounds for divorce.If you divorced them did you truly forgive them?
"The Heavens declare the glory of God;and the firmament sheweth his handiwork" Pslam 19:1
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