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Few prayers would be appreciated #2063549
03/20/17 05:11 AM
03/20/17 05:11 AM
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chilton co.
trox28 Offline OP
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I don't normally ask for prayers especially for myself but I need a few sent my way these next few days if you fellas dont mind.Need prayers to make the right decisions for my family the coming days and the comfort for my kids to get through what is about to happen.After 18 years the wife and I are done.It's been a long time coming but I just cannot deal with it anymore.Thanks in advance guys.

Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063553
03/20/17 05:13 AM
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Gee's Bend/At The Hog Pen
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Dang..Prayers coming your way



Do not regret growing older, it's a privilege denied to many!

Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063558
03/20/17 05:15 AM
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Done

Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063561
03/20/17 05:16 AM
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Get the best lawyer that you can find. Don't trust her for a second. As soon as reality hits her in the face she will expect you to do & pay for EVERYTHING. Your objective is, like every decent man, to be fair and do what is best for everyone. Hers is to destroy your life from this point forward.

I wish you the best.


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Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063570
03/20/17 05:22 AM
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Sterrett, AL, USA
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Sorry to hear. Your family is in my prayers.


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Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063575
03/20/17 05:27 AM
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Luverne
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Hate to hear that. Prayers for the Lord to minister to both of you and the children in the way that he sees fit.

Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063576
03/20/17 05:27 AM
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Missouri
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Prayers sent


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Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063586
03/20/17 05:41 AM
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18 years is a long time and a lot of investment to lose. I would do everything I could to try and save the marriage, but I don't know what your situation is. We will celebrate our 40th anniversary in Dec, and there have been a few times I questioned myself, but I'm hanging in there now.

Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063587
03/20/17 05:43 AM
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Fosters, Alabama, USA
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Hate to here that Travis. Prayers on the way.


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Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063588
03/20/17 05:44 AM
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Dang. Prayers lifted.


"I'm not near as critical about how big they are as I once was. Smiles are more important now! We will grow more deer."
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Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063592
03/20/17 05:51 AM
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behind my Dillon
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behind my Dillon
Sent.


Skinny is my EX.Alcohol was involved.
Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063598
03/20/17 05:57 AM
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Prayers sent


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Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063600
03/20/17 06:01 AM
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Prayers sent.

Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063601
03/20/17 06:01 AM
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Round ‘bout there
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God bless, Trox. I hope things work out best for you.

Also, take BeerBelly's advice to heart. Protect yourself, document, get a good attorney.


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Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063602
03/20/17 06:01 AM
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Dang hate to hear that, prayers your way. I will say this I was facing the same thing 1.5 years ago. And it was awful and I thought it would never work out went through 40 days of hell and the temp. hearing after which it resolved so it can work out. If you see its going to be an ugly fight get the best lawyer you can afford, as the courts in Alabama are stacked against the fathers from the get go. Ours was difficult because we have a special needs child, I was getting hammered for 75% of my salary and the default visitation was 4 days a month 8 hours on Christmas or something like that. Not sure of your situation but it can be an awful nasty fight that isn't fair so be prepared if it goes that way.


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Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: tbest3] #2063612
03/20/17 06:10 AM
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Originally Posted By: tbest3
Hate to hear that. Prayers for the Lord to minister to both of you and the children in the way that he sees fit.


Isaiah 5:20 Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.
Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: timbercruiser] #2063613
03/20/17 06:10 AM
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trox28 Offline OP
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Originally Posted By: timbercruiser
18 years is a long time and a lot of investment to lose. I would do everything I could to try and save the marriage, but I don't know what your situation is. We will celebrate our 40th anniversary in Dec, and there have been a few times I questioned myself, but I'm hanging in there now.


Buddy you just don't know the sacrifices I've made and how much I've tried for the kids.She has been through alot losing both her parents 5 years ago but her way of coping is drinking.Her drinking and selfish ways are outta control.She got home at 3am Saturday morning and 11:30 Saturday night.She started a job back 5 or 6 months ago and it has went downhill since.I urged her to get a job and get outta the house.It backfired on me.She worked from 2-8 pm Friday night.Got home at 3am.Daughter and I had to be at the ballpark at 9:30 Sat morning for pictures.Wife had to be at work at 11am..After trying to call her a few times on our way home we got here to find her still asleep at 10:30am and having to be at work at 11..She went on into work and got off at 8pm..She got home at 11:30..There's so much more to it but that is only a small speck of the chit I deal with.I don't know what else to do.Yall say a prayer for her as well that the good lord will get her on a new path away from alcohol.I told her Saturday night if she keeps going the way she's going she will be dead in 10 years.Her mom died at 58 from a massive heart attack and her dad has multiple strokes before he got killed in a motorcycle accident at 56..I'm not perfect but I have been a damn good husband and father.I can't do it anymore.

Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063632
03/20/17 06:33 AM
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Praying for you, Trox. I'm so sorry.

Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063637
03/20/17 06:37 AM
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Sorry to hear that


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Re: Few prayers would be appreciated [Re: trox28] #2063640
03/20/17 06:39 AM
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Prayers sent

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