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aldeer advice. #1148076
11/14/14 06:09 PM
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My niece wants me to take her hunting. Im all for it but her mom my sil won't let her go when she ask. I have her hear with me while im getting everything ready to take my sonin the morning. Im telling yall it is killing her she wants to go so bad. When we talk to her about it she wants her husband to take her. But he dont hunt. He just started fishing this summer. He hardly ever takes her. She is 10 and very smart and mature for her age. What yall think? What would be the best approach to this situation.

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Re: aldeer advice. [Re: dnolen] #1148081
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Kidnap her I guess?


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Re: aldeer advice. [Re: Beadlescomb] #1148083
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Originally Posted By: Beadlescomb
Kidnap her I guess?

im bout at that point.

Re: aldeer advice. [Re: dnolen] #1148084
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Go have a talk with your brother / bil.

Re: aldeer advice. [Re: scrubbuck] #1148085
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Originally Posted By: scrubbuck
Go have a talk with your brother / bil.

Re: aldeer advice. [Re: dnolen] #1148087
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All you can do is talk to her parents. Maybe one day they will let you take her.


83% of all statistics are made up.

Re: aldeer advice. [Re: dnolen] #1148091
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You say you have her here? Well it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. thumbup


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Re: aldeer advice. [Re: BowtechDan] #1148093
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Originally Posted By: BowtechDan
You say you have her here? Well it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. thumbup

thats what I've been thinkin to. They are picking her up when they get off work.

Re: aldeer advice. [Re: BowtechDan] #1148208
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Originally Posted By: BowtechDan
You say you have her here? Well it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. thumbup


X2, this is what I would do


"You cant manage a deer herd with acorns."

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Re: aldeer advice. [Re: dnolen] #1148268
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Originally Posted By: dnolen
Originally Posted By: BowtechDan
You say you have her here? Well it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. thumbup

thats what I've been thinkin to. They are picking her up when they get off work.




Would you want someone to let your son do something that you don't want him to do? Bad idea. IMO


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Re: aldeer advice. [Re: dnolen] #1148274
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If her parents do not want her to do something then it is not your place. All you can do is to talk to her parents about it and try and convince them. She is not your child.


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Re: aldeer advice. [Re: dnolen] #1148302
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We aren't talking about going and robbing stores or taking her to a rap concert. Take that kid huntin they will accept it when they see that smile on her face! You can't beat the look on a kids face when they get to see and take Bambi.


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Re: aldeer advice. [Re: N2TRKYS] #1148306
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Originally Posted By: N2TRKYS
Originally Posted By: dnolen
Originally Posted By: BowtechDan
You say you have her here? Well it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. thumbup

thats what I've been thinkin to. They are picking her up when they get off work.




Would you want someone to let your son do something that you don't want him to do? Bad idea. IMO


^^^^^This. It sucks that they won't let her go, but if you burn a bridge here, they may never trust you with her again.

Re: aldeer advice. [Re: dnolen] #1148332
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Without permission no way I would take her. It might start a long time family problem. Besides the no-permission, there is always the slim chance she might get hurt in an accident.

Re: aldeer advice. [Re: dnolen] #1148381
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Tell us how it turned out! grin


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Re: aldeer advice. [Re: BowtechDan] #1160356
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Well?


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Re: aldeer advice. [Re: BrotherTurtle] #1160390
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Originally Posted By: N2TRKYS
Originally Posted By: dnolen
[quote=BowtechDan]
Would you want someone to let your son do something that you don't want him to do? Bad idea. IMO


^^^^^This. It sucks that they won't let her go, but if you burn a bridge here, they may never trust you with her again.



Don't lose your trust to your SIL. You may lose your niece.

Sucks, but better to be an influence on the niece, than losing her.

Can you take her out shooting a .22? Take her fishing, or some other outdoor activities which would eventually lead to hunting?

God Bless,
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Re: aldeer advice. [Re: dnolen] #1160542
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Think I bout gotten talked into it.

Re: aldeer advice. [Re: dnolen] #1160658
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my grand nephew . i call , is critter doing any thing if not send him up to mommy's . in about 15 mintutes he's walked to the house . lol


i have just always expected to take them hunting , if they wanted to go . tell you the truth i would be offended if i couldn't .

Re: aldeer advice. [Re: Skinny] #1160675
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Originally Posted By: Skinny
If her parents do not want her to do something then it is not your place. All you can do is to talk to her parents about it and try and convince them. She is not your child.


X2 No need in damaging their trust in you over taking the kid hunting. I understand your desire to take her, but it's their kid. Take him and her.


If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land. 2 Chronicles 7:14
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