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aldeer advice.
#1148076
11/14/14 06:09 PM
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Posts: 4,753 haleyville al,
dnolen
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My niece wants me to take her hunting. Im all for it but her mom my sil won't let her go when she ask. I have her hear with me while im getting everything ready to take my sonin the morning. Im telling yall it is killing her she wants to go so bad. When we talk to her about it she wants her husband to take her. But he dont hunt. He just started fishing this summer. He hardly ever takes her. She is 10 and very smart and mature for her age. What yall think? What would be the best approach to this situation.
Last edited by dnolen; 11/15/14 05:45 AM.
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Re: aldeer advice.
[Re: dnolen]
#1148087
11/14/14 06:17 PM
11/14/14 06:17 PM
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Joined: Mar 2013
Posts: 14,588 Tuscaloosa Co.
N2TRKYS
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All you can do is talk to her parents. Maybe one day they will let you take her.
83% of all statistics are made up.
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Re: aldeer advice.
[Re: BowtechDan]
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11/15/14 01:35 AM
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You say you have her here? Well it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. X2, this is what I would do
"You cant manage a deer herd with acorns."
-Dr. Craig Harper
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Re: aldeer advice.
[Re: dnolen]
#1148268
11/15/14 03:20 AM
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N2TRKYS
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You say you have her here? Well it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. thats what I've been thinkin to. They are picking her up when they get off work. Would you want someone to let your son do something that you don't want him to do? Bad idea. IMO
83% of all statistics are made up.
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Re: aldeer advice.
[Re: dnolen]
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11/15/14 03:23 AM
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Skinny
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If her parents do not want her to do something then it is not your place. All you can do is to talk to her parents about it and try and convince them. She is not your child.
Never Trust Government
"You can be broke but you cant be poor." Ruthie-May Webster
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Re: aldeer advice.
[Re: dnolen]
#1148302
11/15/14 03:45 AM
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We aren't talking about going and robbing stores or taking her to a rap concert. Take that kid huntin they will accept it when they see that smile on her face! You can't beat the look on a kids face when they get to see and take Bambi.
As Always WAR EAGLE!
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Re: aldeer advice.
[Re: N2TRKYS]
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11/15/14 03:49 AM
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You say you have her here? Well it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. thats what I've been thinkin to. They are picking her up when they get off work. Would you want someone to let your son do something that you don't want him to do? Bad idea. IMO ^^^^^This. It sucks that they won't let her go, but if you burn a bridge here, they may never trust you with her again.
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Re: aldeer advice.
[Re: BrotherTurtle]
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11/23/14 03:27 PM
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Posts: 10,056 Northport, Al.
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[quote=BowtechDan] Would you want someone to let your son do something that you don't want him to do? Bad idea. IMO ^^^^^This. It sucks that they won't let her go, but if you burn a bridge here, they may never trust you with her again. Don't lose your trust to your SIL. You may lose your niece. Sucks, but better to be an influence on the niece, than losing her. Can you take her out shooting a .22? Take her fishing, or some other outdoor activities which would eventually lead to hunting? God Bless, David B.
Premium member #8925 Team Rack Addicts 2016 Aldeer Deer Champions
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Re: aldeer advice.
[Re: Skinny]
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11/23/14 05:11 PM
11/23/14 05:11 PM
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Posts: 39,449 Marshall County
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If her parents do not want her to do something then it is not your place. All you can do is to talk to her parents about it and try and convince them. She is not your child. X2 No need in damaging their trust in you over taking the kid hunting. I understand your desire to take her, but it's their kid. Take him and her.
If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land. 2 Chronicles 7:14
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