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well #1078471
09/15/14 04:43 PM
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I'm not gonna go into any details but y'all say a prayer for me if you would, it's been a pretty eventful night.. I'm honestly not sure if marriage was the best move on my end..one was or another we will get through it

Re: well [Re: ] #1078473
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You been drinking again ain't ya?


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Re: well [Re: YEKRUT] #1078476
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Marriage isn't easy. There will be ups and downs til the day you die.


Originally Posted by Patricia Heaton
If you’re a common sense person, you probably don’t feel you have a home in this world right now. If you’re a Christian, you know you were never meant to.


Re: well [Re: IDOT] #1078481
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Re: well [Re: YEKRUT] #1078484
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Originally Posted By: YEKRUT
You been drinking again ain't ya?


Yep

Re: well [Re: ] #1078485
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Originally Posted By: steelman
Originally Posted By: YEKRUT
You been drinking again ain't ya?


Yep


It happens

Re: well [Re: ] #1078487
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If you only knew.....
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If you only knew.....
It's a forever work in progress...... You don't just quit.... You continually work at it..... Hope you get it figured out for the best.....

Re: well [Re: IDOT] #1078488
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Originally Posted By: IDOT
Marriage isn't easy. There will be ups and downs til the day you die.
that's a big ten 4..I'm trying my best to understand them women's

Re: well [Re: ] #1078494
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Originally Posted By: steelman
Originally Posted By: IDOT
Marriage isn't easy. There will be ups and downs til the day you die.
that's a big ten 4..I'm trying my best to understand them women's


That's where you are messing up.

You will never understand them. grin

Just got to learn what it takes to get through the "downs" and enjoy the "ups" when they are there! thumbup


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Re: well [Re: ] #1078509
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Anything worth having takes work. Marriage is no different. Gotta give and take for a marriage to work. That said, I'm certainly no expert and ain't offering advice, or saying I've got the answers.

Prayers sent.


Jesus... I hope you know Him personally like I do.

Si vis pacem, para bellum.

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Re: well [Re: ] #1078513
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You might try drinking less and bumping uglies more. Just saying! smile always works for me. Mommas mad, go wrestle her a little bit and make like a rabbit.


Some men are mere hunters; others are turkey hunters. —Archibald Rutledge—
Re: well [Re: ] #1078525
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Originally Posted By: Cuz-Pat
Originally Posted By: steelman
Originally Posted By: IDOT
Marriage isn't easy. There will be ups and downs til the day you die.
that's a big ten 4..I'm trying my best to understand them women's


That's where you are messing up.

You will never understand them. grin

Just got to learn what it takes to get through the "downs" and enjoy the "ups" when they are there! thumbup


What Cuz said.

Re: well [Re: ] #1078611
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Every single married couple in this world has up and downs and arguing. If they say they don't then ...well there lying.

Hang in there . Part of marriage steelman. It's very very hard .

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Hard work, but don't give up. Communicate and be willing to forgive. And, lots of prayer.

Prayers sent up for y'all.


"Said I never had much use for one; never said I didn't know how to use it".
-Matthew Quigley in "Quigley Down Under"
Re: well [Re: ] #1078625
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Ain't nothing in life worth having is easy. If it's worth having its worth fighting for. Hang in there!


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Re: well [Re: ] #1078667
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No wonder you havent replied to my text about people not answering the phone. If you need an ear to bend call me. Ive got plenty of experince dealing with women issues.


Really?
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Originally Posted By: steelman
I'm trying my best to understand them women's


You can give up on that dream.


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Re: well [Re: ] #1078728
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Paul says in Eph. 5:21-33

Instructions for Christian Households
21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[b] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[c] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

This is my take on what Paul is saying: We must die to our own flesh, (remember the flesh is weak). As a husband I give up what I want all the way to giving up my life for my wife. If she does not respect you, you keep "giving up your life" to her and she will see something to respect that she can not deny.
Disclaimer!!! I write this to myself as much or more than anyone!!!

Mostly Paul says, "This is a profound mystery" lol
Prayer sent!

Re: well [Re: superdave] #1078732
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When in doubt, tap it out. grin


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