If he's truly your friend, talk with him calmly.

Go into it with a lot of prayer. A man that is chasing things on the side has a lot of brain chemicals flowing freely, ie. a buck in rut. He will probably not be able hear what you are telling him. I have worked with real good guys that have knew better but because of the rush (brain chemicals) they walked out into the green field in broad day light with their heads down. Now, some of their heads are on walls. What I am saying, from my experience, you will need to go to him many times. If he is a close friend and you want to try to keep his family in tack, you need to stay at it with love in your heart. He is flat wrong for what he is doing and he needs to hear that from you. It sucks but people are messy.

This is what I try to keep in my mind as I work with people that have screwed up...
"but for the grace of God I go"

Peace and good luck,
Dave
PM me and I can point you to some good resources.

Ive been wanting to come clean with ya'll guys for a while now about ya'lls wives. They are all texting me and trying to get up on this. There is only so much of me to go around so ya'll try and keep them at bay for me until I can get a free minute or two.

So, Not gonna be friends with someone who made a bad decision? I am glad to know that their are so many perfect people out there!

Let the guy know its not right. Talk with him like a true friend, there may be ALOT more to this story that he needs to talk about. You might just be able to help him!

Maybe some of your "Vagina Magnet Powers" rubbed off on him, and he has no control.

Exactly! Just because he sucks at being a husband doesn't mean that he isn't a true friend.

Maybe they are down with the swing?

More people do it than you think lol

I got a text the other day that said a bunch of stuff about "FWB" websites (friends with benefits). It basically explained this person is into meeting people on the web and meeting up for random sex. It was a California # and she gave all her online ID info and called me by the wrong name, so it seemed legit but for someone else. She texted back in 20 min and said sorry wrong #. I think there's a lot that goes on in the world that I'm blind to. Random sex meetings with strangers. Imagine that.

I don't have to think I know....

Why do you think everyone keeps going fishing with the Josh's

You ain't trying to say they got their under wear on backwards are you?

Or he could be trying to put it to your wife or anything else that runs through his calamity head.

It is a no brainer guess no one read what I posted earlier about what I experienced in a very similar situation. I told my friend that his fiancé was cheating and he's was very thankful. We ARE still friends. I think your making a mistake if you don't do something about the situation. If he or his wife are truly your friends then they will appreciate it.

So what you are saying is that you are going to tell her?

I can't believe nobody has asked. On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being best, how does his wife look? There might be a brother in this place that's worth a sh!t and looking for a woman.

Hell I'd buy the wife some new panties & have her meet me down the road..

post his phone number in the homo section on craigs list.

What I was thinking too.

I already told your wife and she was agassed. Got down right ugly with me too. Called me a liar and every dirty word in the book. Said there's no way on earth she could be soooo lucky that another woman would have your one armed ass.

Clem is the only sane one on here. The rest of y'all are judgmental bastards.