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Life’s unexpected twist.
#3184242
08/04/20 10:14 PM
08/04/20 10:14 PM
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Joined: Dec 2010
Posts: 4,545 Centreville AL.
sbo1971
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Posts: 4,545
Centreville AL.
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I will try to keep this short as the back story could fill a book the size of a Webster’s dictionary. Over 20 yrs ago My wife and I gained custody of my 8 yr old daughter from my first marriage but due to some liking and deception from my brother and his wife, they ended up with her about three years afterwards and I never saw nor heard from her again. About three years after that my brother passed away and his widow left the state with her and remarried. They moved back to Alabama years later but during all of this my daughter was told that we didn’t t want her and that we hated her while we were told pretty much the same about her. Back in March of this year my wife and I received a friend request on Facebook from her; we talked about it but wasn’t sure about what to do. I finally told her to accept it if she wanted to and I did the same. She and messaged each other and then she called me that same night as I was heading back from my Ohio run and we talked for about 6 hours. We talked every day after that, and when we moved she came to visit. After nearly nine years of marriage and three boys, she is getting divorced, he left her and the boys only for them to have the power and water cut off and then evicted as he had not paid the bills for awhile. She moved in with someone(this was last year) but it was not working out so my wife and I decided that they could move in with us if she wanted. My daughter thanked me but declined and then they came for the Fourth of July and spent the day and had a blast; the following Monday she called and asked if the invitation was still good. I picked them up that Wednesday when I came back from my run so this week will make it four weeks of them living with us. I never would have dreamed that after 20 yrs my oldest daughter would be back with us, I can’t describe how thankful I am for this chance to be a part of her life She had a horrible childhood, due in part to her biological mother, my parents, and my brother and his wife, a life that no child should ever have to face. It’s hard not to be angry at the years that we can never get back, so much time was lost that cannot be made up, but I thank God for this opportunity, while I was already a grandfather to a beautiful 6 month old girl, I am now a grandfather to a 7, 5, and 1 yr old boys.
Elite Omnia, Easton FMJ, Axcel Landslyde 5 pin slider.
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Re: Life’s unexpected twist.
[Re: sbo1971]
#3184252
08/04/20 10:31 PM
08/04/20 10:31 PM
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Joined: Jun 2014
Posts: 6,896 Shelby Co, AL
CatHeadBiscuit
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Posts: 6,896
Shelby Co, AL
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Let’s hope them boys like getting outside. Cause you’ve got some new hunting and fishing buddies.
"Arguing on the internet is like playing chess with a pigeon. You may be good at chess, but the pigeon is just going to knock all the pieces down, take a crap on the table, and strut around like its victorious."--Anonymous
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Re: Life’s unexpected twist.
[Re: sbo1971]
#3184253
08/04/20 10:33 PM
08/04/20 10:33 PM
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Joined: Mar 2018
Posts: 16,825 Banana Republic
jb20
Old Mossy Horns
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Old Mossy Horns
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Banana Republic
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Awesome man...theys a plan in place
They who can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety, deserve neither liberty nor safety. Ben Franklin
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Re: Life’s unexpected twist.
[Re: sbo1971]
#3184254
08/04/20 10:35 PM
08/04/20 10:35 PM
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Joined: Feb 2002
Posts: 44,211 North Alabama
Wiley Coyote
Freak of Nature
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Freak of Nature
Joined: Feb 2002
Posts: 44,211
North Alabama
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I tell you what, that blurred my screen. God does work in ways that we don't understand and it appears that He's intervened in y'alls lives. Make the most of every minute!
I firmly believe that a double gallows should be constructed on the East Lawn of The White House. Politicians who willfully and shamelessly violate their oath to uphold and defend the Constitution of the United States of America should be swiftly tried and, upon conviction, publicly hanged at sunup the day after conviction. If multiple convicts are to be hanged they can choose with whom to share the gallows or names shall be drawn from the hangman's hat to be hanged 2 at a time.
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Re: Life’s unexpected twist.
[Re: sbo1971]
#3184319
08/05/20 07:40 AM
08/05/20 07:40 AM
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Joined: Dec 2010
Posts: 4,545 Centreville AL.
sbo1971
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It still seems so surreal she and I have cried so much in so many times the last 4 months. Since they have moved into the house I have taught her how to shoot and took a coon hunting the boys are next in line and plan on taking them fishing here the next day or two when I get home from my run. She is already making plans to go deer hunting with me this season as well as the boys.
Elite Omnia, Easton FMJ, Axcel Landslyde 5 pin slider.
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Re: Life’s unexpected twist.
[Re: sbo1971]
#3184352
08/05/20 08:46 AM
08/05/20 08:46 AM
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Joined: Nov 2015
Posts: 21,445 HSV AL
jmudler
Freak of Nature
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Freak of Nature
Joined: Nov 2015
Posts: 21,445
HSV AL
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Don't waste a second. Let them see Love in everything you do.
Isaiah 5:20 Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.
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Re: Life’s unexpected twist.
[Re: sbo1971]
#3184491
08/05/20 12:25 PM
08/05/20 12:25 PM
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Joined: Nov 2012
Posts: 10,055 Northport, Al.
BOFF
Booner
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Booner
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Posts: 10,055
Northport, Al.
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So pleased to hear of the reconciliation.
God Bless, David B.
Premium member #8925 Team Rack Addicts 2016 Aldeer Deer Champions
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Re: Life’s unexpected twist.
[Re: sbo1971]
#3184510
08/05/20 01:29 PM
08/05/20 01:29 PM
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Joined: Jul 2011
Posts: 39,449 Marshall County
FurFlyin
Freak of Nature
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Freak of Nature
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Marshall County
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That is about as awesome as awesome gets. Proud for your whole family.
If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land. 2 Chronicles 7:14
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Re: Life’s unexpected twist.
[Re: sbo1971]
#3184603
08/05/20 04:08 PM
08/05/20 04:08 PM
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Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 12,246 Oxford, AL. USA
Big Game Hunter
Doesn’t Know His Code
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Doesn’t Know His Code
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 12,246
Oxford, AL. USA
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Glad to hear that things worked out for y'all.
IKNOWMYPHUCKINGCODEDAMMITYOUDICKHEAD!!!
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