None of my business and more towards your last post. Even though you have custody of the child, if you really want to adopt do everything you can to get that job done. Don’t let it linger. I’m sure you are doing what you can to get it done. Have friends that have a grandson. Raised the child practically from birth. Not sure why they never adopted and got all rights, but 13 years old and his father filed and got him. Never was in his life ever. Pray everything works out for you and child.