Unfortunately, you're right, but in the club I run you'd better learn to or incur my wrath plus a financial penalty and put yourself in a situation where you might be looking for a new place to hunt. It's all about education. Ill give an example. We have 6 members on 800 acres. Nobody is a meat hunter and were all on the same page. One member, who is only a member so his son has a good place to hunt. The son, who has hunted with us since he was around 12, he is now a senior in college and his hunting maturity is well beyond his years. He killed his first buck this year and he has passed on bucks each year that a lot of adults would have killed but wanted to kill something he'd be proud of and that would go on his wall.
I saw the buck earlier in the season and told him about it. He killed it about 10 days later and it was a good 4 1/2 yr old 7 point. He was thrilled and I was proud of him for holding out for a mature buck. To each his own