A. I agree with your wife. Why do you still care? That's really not a good reason to go looking for a fight. Unless he raped your old gf, she willingly gave it up...be mad at her, not him. Regardless, we're talking ancient history, and you've moved on with your life with a different woman. Let it go.
B. If you want to say something to him about being in your yard, have at it. Is it your pond, or a "community" pond?


"You think I care? Roll Damn Tide"

Have you tried Google?