That's the thing, you never know what one little tweek, would do to the whole "current situation". I would like to be able to say that my wife now, was my first and only, but if so, I may have a son, just not the one I have now. I may also have a daughter, but just not the one I have now. God puts where He wants us and when He wants us there for a reason. To this day I still wonder what the reasons are from time to time. Having said all that, other than saving all the money I blew on guns, cigarettes (I'm now a reformed smoker ), beer and pole dancers . I wouldn't change a thing.