Roadkill that is spot on advice bud.My whole family is like that.That is the reason my wife and I moved 67 miles away from my nearest relative.My family IS the Jerry Springer show.If you love her then take the reigns and make a family BE the man of the house and set a pressidence right from the start with her and her family.My wife had to ask herself if she loved me enough to put up with their crap and she said yes.So I manned up and moved so I wouldn't be close.Distancing really does help.I also manned up by running my own household and not getting involved in any of their crap even when they try to drag me into it.That was 23 years ago and now they don't even bother with me anymore.