Best thing ever happened to me was divorcing my first wife. We were young but it was 4 years of hell. Stayed as long as I could for my son. She dogged me to him but I never said anything bad about her. I spent every time I saw him showing him through my actions she was full of it. He is 26 now and we have a great relationship, he has nothing to do with her. he only sees her on holidays and that is mainly for his grandmother. A year after the divorce I met my current wife of 18 years have 2 wonderful daughters and couldn't be happier. Just let her go she's not worth it. My ex is still the same piece of crap she was back then