Prayer sent! But rememeber what doekiller said! At some point you may want to hire a lawyer, their is no reason a man cant get custody of his children!!! I had 1 of the bloodiest divorces a man can have. I wouldnt have whised it on my worst enemy! I have had custody of my daughter for 10 years now! I hope you can work thing out with your wife but if you cant. Hire a good deteive and a GREAT lawyer!