Originally Posted By: fairwater
Just remember she cheated on you way more than twice. Thats just what you caught her at.


No truer words can be said ... If you found out 2x then its probable that shes been at it for a whole lot more than you know about.

I've been there too brother. I forgave my ex wife the first time and thought we had made it through the bad stuff but then it happened again. Second time I went on the offensive and won custody of my 2 daughters. Now, 12 years later, my daughters are a huge blessing to me and neither one of them has ever given me a lick of trouble.

I really just want to offer up 3 things for ya ...

1) Cheating is rarely about the other spouse, it usually indicates a character defect and other issues related to the cheater. Don't let your guilt over your own mistakes lead you to believe she was justified because she wasn't

2) God wants your children and you are the only person qualified to lead them to Him. Take charge and do exactly that, God will bless both you and your children

3) Prayers for peace and strength coming your way ...




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