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After 16 years of marriage. My wife wants a divorce. I'm not taking it to good either. Our marriage has been rocky over the years, but I never thought this would happen. I know I could have been a better husband a lot of times. I know she could have been a better wife too. She cheated on me twice through our marriage and we still managed to make it through that. She tells me that I don't love her like I should and that she's not happy any more. I do blame myself for a lot of the problem. I never really let go of the fact that she cheated on me. I lost my job of 11 1/2 years back in September. That has put a big burden on us. We do have two wonderful children together. They are my life. I just don't like not being able to see them everyday. She's been gone for three weeks now and it gets harder everyday. I do still love her. I'm just asking you guys for some prayers right now. Just bought our house back in August too.
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Sorry to hear about that. You're a better man than me for keeping a cheater around, especially twice. I'll say a word for you.
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Turkey Nut
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Keep your chin up. Spend time with the kids every chance you get and enjoy this turkey season without worrying who she is sleeping with while you are gone.
Some men are mere hunters; others are turkey hunters. —Archibald Rutledge—
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Hang in there bud. Call me if you need to talk.
Sounds like she made her mind up a long time ago, just didn't want to go through the big d.
Make the best decisions for yourself and your kids. It will get better. Prayers for all of y'all.
Do you want to hear him gobble, or do you want to kill him.
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Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani?
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Poppa Jon
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Keep your head up. Prayers coming your way.
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Prayers sent. I know firsthand how bad divorces suck for kids.
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I will keep you in my thoughts, my parents went through a divorce when I was a kid. It was hard on me, so hard that I don't speak to my sperm donor for what he said to me about my mother.
Keep your head up, she cheated on you twice man, she is the problem.
Just keep the kids you number one and you'll be fine.
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Toughest decision I ever made was to walk away from the cheating mother of our two children. I tried for 2 years to get past it but couldn't! I went down a bad road afterwards and it cost me dearly and the worst part of that was that I knew it would. All I can tell you is that life get's much better and if you stay in their lives the kids adjust. It sucks but they are all that matters now. I didn't get married and have children to become an every other weekend father and I fought it as hard as I could but jealousy and the devil ate me alive and dang near killed me. Keep your head up and know that if you are there for them they will know and the circumstances will even come to light eventually in their eyes. For me the light at the end of the first tunnel was a train but I survived and found my way to the other side. A bitch like that won't make it easy on you but as the kids get older and see that their father never gives up, and they will, they will have that much more respect for you! Life will be much better! I will say a prayer that only folks like us can understand for you!
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Sorry to hear that. I'm in a similar position. Girl I've been with that I took back from cheating(after I got her back of course) told me today she's found somebody else. I bee dam
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Sorry to hear about that. You're a better man than me for keeping a cheater around, especially twice. I'll say a word for you. x2 I believe u done a good job loving her, by not throwing her out on her arse!!! Mangler said it best.Keep the best relationship u can with ur children, and don't be tempted to follow the wrong path.And most of all try to make a great life for yourself! Prayers sent........
Do not regret growing older, it's a privilege denied to many!
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Hang in there bud if you need to talk call anytime.
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Just remember she cheated on you way more than twice. Thats just what you caught her at. I hate your going thru this. I believe its for the best no man deserves to be with a woman that doesn't truly love him. You will find a better woman one day and be truly happy. Until then Prayers for you my friend.
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You got any nekkid pictures of her?
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I went through the same thing with my first wife,but she left kids and all.I guess that made it easier for me,but I had a hard time explaining all of it to my children.It will get better over time,but having good friends,and family will be key for you pal.I didn't know it at the time and it hurt like heck,but divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me(and my children).I now have a wonderful wife,who loves me no matter how much of a screw up I am.Hang in there pal,we are praying for you!!!
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Make sure you find someone you can talk with confidentially and put God and your kids first in your life. You can't control what your wife does but you can control your decisions.
Remember, for every good choice you make you will be able to make another. For every bad decision the next will be made for you.
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Something good cant start till something bad ends...
as cold as it sounds...If she cant keep her damn pants on...you don't need her...
Now I know it hurts, but quit feeling sorry for yourself and make life happen...
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You got any nekkid pictures of her? Lol
Some men are mere hunters; others are turkey hunters. —Archibald Rutledge—
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