Abide by the terms of the divorce, especially making sure you get your son when the papers say you get him. The longer you let it go with not seeing him, the more "evidence" she has that you don't want to see him. Don't let it get to that point. Take her back to court if it means no hunting lease, no fishing next weekend, disconnect the CATV/high speed internet, etc.. Whatever it takes to save the money to get her in court you gotta decide if your son is worth it. That may sound harsh but it had to be said.
