Its no question that I've been having problems out of my ex-wife. I have a great relationship with my 11yr son. I've been divorced from his mom for 8yrs. Without wasting your time with every little detail, I have not seen him for the past 3wks. On fathers day (which he normally spends with me) I recieved a text from her at 6:45pm simply saying "happy fathers day from ___". I was pissed but didnt say anything. I just replied "thank you buddy, wish I could have seen you today". Never got a reply back from that. I bite my tounge all the time just to keep the peace. I can be hot headed and cop and attitude but with her I dont because I dont want her to use it against me. My birthday was Saturday and I never heard from him. With all this I'm not mad at him but at her. Now I'm not saying I'm perfect but as far as paying her and helping her, I feel like I do everthing right. She is crazy as one can be and mean as hell. I could go on and on about her behavior but wont boar you and frankly dont have enough space. I emailed her earlier and asked if we were going to be able pick him up Friday. Her reply " well we are suppose to be going out of town friday but ill check and see if he wants to come to your house". Now I'm normally ok with him making plans with her and not coming over to my house because I want him to have a good summer and get to have freinds there etc. Normally unless she is in one of her moods I get him a couple times or more every month. Here is the question. I pay my childsupport every month on the 1st, and after 8yrs, I have never missed or been late with a payment. I'm sure the only reason they will be able to go on vacation is because They will be getting $ from me and not getting it would probably damber their plans. If she chooses not to let me get him and I choose not to pay her on the 1ST but maybe the 5th or later what could happen? I dont want to play her games but I feel like its the only way to bargin. What could happen if it was a week or so late? I feel like this could blow up in my face somehow. Anyone ever been through something like this?

Last edited by BPS; 06/26/13 10:46 AM.
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