When I was a teenager and could drive and avoid certain family functions or things of that nature that I had been asked to attend my mother always told me that I was conspicuous by my absence! Aldeer has always been a big dysfunctional family. I don't know spoiler personally and I don't know the circumstances or the poster who posted this but if it was me I know for a fact I wouldn't ignore it. TChunter has pictures of my feet that could be used against me in a court of law.
