My wife gets stressed dealing with our little boy sometimes too.Hes almost 2 years old and is a handful so I know what your saying.With that said I do my part when I get home from work everyday too.Everything is 50/50 in our relationship.When we get a chance to get out and go somewhere without the kids we do.It will keep the relationship healthy to just leave the kids once and a while and just get out.She knows when I wanna go hunting I go unless we got sick kids.My family comes before anything.But family is suppose to be based on compromise.Sounds to me compromise got kicked in the ass out the front door and dictatorship moved in.