Ain't no way a man or woman should have to live this way. I don't give a damn what she looks like. Sometimes my wife will ask if I mind if she goes out with the girls and I just give her the look. It actually bothers me if she asks permission.
1more thing. When I kill a good buck you can bet your a$$ there will friends coming over to check it out. Hell, sometimes they get to my house before I do.