Originally Posted By: Clem
I've been married 23 years to a wonderful woman.

We have a positive, loving relationship that is built on, among other things, trust and definitely NOT who is "in charge" or who is "trained."

We check with each other about plans. We don't "ask permission" to go do something. I don't "tell her" she can or can't, and she doesn't "tell me" that I can or can't do something.

You have a lot to learn about marriage. It's a relationship of two people, not one, and not a "ruler of a domain" or anything along those lines.






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I went through a few before I found one that was a partner and enjoyed hunting and fishing WITH me, that's why I got married at 35. I let her know where and when I am going and usually ask if she wants to go with me! Have never heard a complaint about it.

I swear by my life and my love of it that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine