Originally Posted By: Clem
I've been married 23 years to a wonderful woman.

We have a positive, loving relationship that is built on, among other things, trust and definitely NOT who is "in charge" or who is "trained."

We check with each other about plans. We don't "ask permission" to go do something. I don't "tell her" she can or can't, and she doesn't "tell me" that I can or can't do something.

You have a lot to learn about marriage. It's a relationship of two people, not one, and not a "ruler of a domain" or anything along those lines.







Same here except 28 years. I exposed mine to all my "bad habits" before we married. Couldn't run her off! smile


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