We have a positive, loving relationship that is built on, among other things, trust and definitely NOT who is "in charge" or who is "trained."
We check with each other about plans. We don't "ask permission" to go do something. I don't "tell her" she can or can't, and she doesn't "tell me" that I can or can't do something.
You have a lot to learn about marriage. It's a relationship of two people, not one, and not a "ruler of a domain" or anything along those lines.
AMEN brother. I'm blessed with that kind of marriage as well, and sometimes I honestly feel bad for people who aren't- especially friends of mine who are literally afraid of their wives most of the time.....just....well...sad.
