We have a positive, loving relationship that is built on, among other things, trust and definitely NOT who is "in charge" or who is "trained."
We check with each other about plans. We don't "ask permission" to go do something. I don't "tell her" she can or can't, and she doesn't "tell me" that I can or can't do something.
You have a lot to learn about marriage. It's a relationship of two people, not one, and not a "ruler of a domain" or anything along those lines.
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"Bible says you shouldn't put sugar in your cornbread." Dustin, 2013
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