I was at a funeral the other day, pastor says it wasn't God's will that the person died. I was like, huh? Seems like as Christians we say it is God's will to comfort those who lost a family member or friend.
I have a hard time getting there, if God knew us before we were formed, and knows how many hairs are on our head, and knows we are a believer, why wouldn't His will be for all of us to die and come home?