These familial situations are so very sad to me. And every single family has some character like this. Reading these comments makes me realize how very, very blessed I am with mine and my brother's relationship. We would do without to make sure the other had enough. I was in charge (self appointed) of our mom's estate and such, I kept him overly informed of the money and balances. My thought was, I ain't going to hey-ull because I fudged some numbers. He really didn't care so much because he knew I was doing my best and we had a trust with each other since childhood. I guess that part makes me sad for these comments. But I know there are undesirables in the best of every family. It's crazy what gets ahold of folks and the miserable road they walk down. Some folks have held onto bitterness so long it's a friend that refuse to deny, it's a part of them.