I ain't disagreeing with anyone's ideals not one bit. But we need to delve into why God struck Onan dead. He must have been pretty displeased with him. I also understand fully well this was an isolated incident. Because I did not want kids early. My wife stayed on the pill till I was 27. I more or less gave in to her and we have two daughters then she had her tubes tied. I did not fully understand love till we had kids . I thought we were in the right but I can't give you a scripture proving we were. He did not strike me dead so he was not as mad as me as he was Onan. That's all I got on this back to talking about trapping only for me