I understand what you are saying and I made the living for my family and my wife stayed home till we got locked out in 1999 and she took a job in the lunch room and got us some good insurance. Saved my bacon because I was in the hospital with kidney stones 2 days after it went into effect. So sometimes a woman working comes in handy. Don't see anywhere in the Bible where it tells them to be loafers. Some times you don't understand priorities. Having a roof over your head and having something to eat is a priority some times.