JR Holmes Oil Company </a </a Shark Guard REST NEST MATTRESS Mayer Insurance Services LLC
Serious Deer Talk
Don Higgins on Drones
by CNC - 08/30/26 10:35 AM
what deer see
by johndeere5036 - 08/27/26 09:43 PM
First fawn!
by ronfromramer - 08/27/26 10:50 AM
Cattle for deer habitat improvement
by CNC - 08/27/26 09:16 AM
New SOAs?
by !shiloh! - 08/26/26 12:26 PM
LOGIN to view CLASSIFIEDS
Land, Leases, Hunting Clubs
Winston County club taking 2 members
by FreeStateHunter - 08/19/26 12:22 PM
NWA Hunt Club in Vernon/Sulligent area
by ScoutsOut - 08/18/26 07:54 AM
2 Spots Open Perry Co Club
by rja - 08/16/26 03:40 PM
Any clubs around Auburn looking for members
by Brady45 - 08/10/26 07:42 PM
Looking for a Club or Lease
by Turkeyhunter12 - 07/31/26 12:18 PM
August
S M T W T F S
1
2 3 4 5 6 7 8
9 10 11 12 13 14 15
16 17 18 19 20 21 22
23 24 25 26 27 28 29
30 31
Who's Online Now
98 members (MCbama, Dixiepatriot, South Ala Hunter, zwick, Jweeks, seminole1, MikeP, TwoRs, burbank, Floorman1, coldtrail, JEM270, CNC, TexasHuntress, jmj120, MS_Hunter, Meatn3, ts1979flh, BamaGuitarDude, Joe4majors, Ant67, abolthunter, 7mmSTW, cch, Petey, Waygin76, AU7MM08, low wall, BearBranch, TurkeyJoe, skymech, RidgeRanger, outdoorguy88, gatorbait154, twaldrop4, 3bailey3, jhardy, Turkeyneck78, cartervj, quailman, claybird, Tall Dog, Showout, dirtwrk, Turberville, Dubie, 3Gs, Dublgrumpy, JW1982, AU338MAG, Fattyfireplug, furnfeather, fish251, wareagle22, dustymac, Narrow Gap, Big AL 76, treemydog, Chad Burnette, gobblebox, M48scout, HURRICANE, Gut Pile 32, CouchNapper, globe, 7PTSPREAD, Ruger8point, geeb1, centralala, Happysappy, Chiller, crenshawco, handihunter, Holcomb, BrandonClark, SC53, Mbrock, sj22, Webfeet1, DuckDown11, Luxfisher, joeml18, canvasback, 15 invisible), 691 guests, and 0 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 1 of 2 1 2
Joined: Dec 2004
Posts: 20,185
Likes: 81
Freak of Nature
Freak of Nature
Joined: Dec 2004
Posts: 20,185
Likes: 81
Why is it women always want to have heavy conversations (bills, jobs, finances, kids, etc…) either first thing in the morning or right before bed? Dad gum, can we not drink coffee and talk about how pretty it is outside for 10 minutes first?


If voting made any difference, they wouldn’t let us do it.-Mark Twain
Joined: Dec 2015
Posts: 312
Likes: 3
B
4 point
4 point
B Online: Content
Joined: Dec 2015
Posts: 312
Likes: 3
Age old question right there


Job 12:7-9
Joined: Dec 2016
Posts: 12,686
Likes: 120
Booner
Booner
Joined: Dec 2016
Posts: 12,686
Likes: 120
From the neck up they’re all the same


When I need expert advice I tend to talk to myself
The older I get the better I used to be
Joined: Oct 2017
Posts: 2,840
Likes: 45
10 point
10 point
Joined: Oct 2017
Posts: 2,840
Likes: 45
Mine's got a group chat. All that stuff goes to that group of codependent weirdos. It's great.

Joined: Aug 2013
Posts: 15,093
Likes: 149
B
BPI Offline
Old Mossy Horns
Old Mossy Horns
B Offline
Joined: Aug 2013
Posts: 15,093
Likes: 149
It makes perfect sense to them. That's all that matters.

Joined: Oct 2013
Posts: 4,229
Likes: 1
B
10 point
10 point
B Offline
Joined: Oct 2013
Posts: 4,229
Likes: 1
Mine does it right before bed, gets my brain going, then I can't sleep. I have been asking her for 13.5 years not to do that, but she still does.

Joined: Aug 2013
Posts: 15,093
Likes: 149
B
BPI Offline
Old Mossy Horns
Old Mossy Horns
B Offline
Joined: Aug 2013
Posts: 15,093
Likes: 149
I thought I'd show my wife how it felt so I waited till she was asleep then I woke her up and start talking about problems. It backfired bigly. She was all about it. Never again.

Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 19,237
Likes: 28
Old Mossy Horns
Old Mossy Horns
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 19,237
Likes: 28
Because it's when I want some

Last edited by Frankie; 12/31/25 10:31 AM.
Joined: Nov 2003
Posts: 9,027
Likes: 10
14 point
14 point
Joined: Nov 2003
Posts: 9,027
Likes: 10
Got snakes in their head & the wiring is screwy…. So no common logic


Originally Posted by hillmp
The left lane is for the the purpose of moving the flow of traffic forward regardless of the speed limit. If your impeding the flow of traffic get your ass in the right lane. It's really that simple...
Joined: Aug 2001
Posts: 81,946
Likes: 515
GUVNER
GUVNER
Joined: Aug 2001
Posts: 81,946
Likes: 515
I tell her that we will discuss it at lunchtime and by lunchtime whatever it was is no longer a problem.


"Never Trust Government" -- Smart people.
"The Great thing we should Fear and the Weird Thing we Trust is Elon Musk" -- Me
"You can be broke but you cant be poor." -- Ruthie-May Webster
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 7,069
Likes: 50
14 point
14 point
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 7,069
Likes: 50
Mine does that if she is stressed. She just wants me to hear that.


"And the days that I keep my gratitude
Higher than my expectations
Well, I have really good days" Ray Wylie Hubbard
Joined: Apr 2016
Posts: 2,247
Likes: 11
T
8 point
8 point
T Online: Content
Joined: Apr 2016
Posts: 2,247
Likes: 11
I unknowingly hit the jackpot with mine. Engineer. Very seldom do emotions drive anything she does or says.


You gonna pull them pistols, or whistle Dixie?
Joined: Aug 2013
Posts: 15,093
Likes: 149
B
BPI Offline
Old Mossy Horns
Old Mossy Horns
B Offline
Joined: Aug 2013
Posts: 15,093
Likes: 149
Originally Posted by treemydog
I unknowingly hit the jackpot with mine. Engineer. Very seldom do emotions drive anything she does or says.

And it's a woman that you married ?

Joined: Mar 2014
Posts: 164
Likes: 2
W
3 point
3 point
W Offline
Joined: Mar 2014
Posts: 164
Likes: 2
Originally Posted by Frankie
Because it's when I want some

Bingo.

Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 9,985
Likes: 36
14 point
14 point
Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 9,985
Likes: 36
If you want to change that dynamic, then be completely present and undistracted at some other time of day to listen to what she has to say and tell her to make a list so she won't forget all the things that need to be discussed.

It is a little bit of a PITA to try to have a discussion about such things when competing with all the other things going on through the day, so it is logical to choose to address those issues when it seems like there are less distractions.

I do sometimes have better luck trying to have a discussion in the car when the only other distraction is driving and he cannot just walk away to do something else.


If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.---Winnie the Pooh
Joined: Aug 2013
Posts: 15,093
Likes: 149
B
BPI Offline
Old Mossy Horns
Old Mossy Horns
B Offline
Joined: Aug 2013
Posts: 15,093
Likes: 149
I see that just asking at a more appropriate time wasn't an option. rofl

Joined: Aug 2013
Posts: 15,093
Likes: 149
B
BPI Offline
Old Mossy Horns
Old Mossy Horns
B Offline
Joined: Aug 2013
Posts: 15,093
Likes: 149
Originally Posted by BPI
I see that just asking at a more appropriate time wasn't an option. rofl

edit. I see the comment about the car. I guess I wasn't paying attention.

Joined: Aug 2013
Posts: 15,093
Likes: 149
B
BPI Offline
Old Mossy Horns
Old Mossy Horns
B Offline
Joined: Aug 2013
Posts: 15,093
Likes: 149
Which is even funnier !!!!!!!

Joined: Nov 2003
Posts: 9,027
Likes: 10
14 point
14 point
Joined: Nov 2003
Posts: 9,027
Likes: 10
Same gender that will say “I forgot to eat” confused loco


Originally Posted by hillmp
The left lane is for the the purpose of moving the flow of traffic forward regardless of the speed limit. If your impeding the flow of traffic get your ass in the right lane. It's really that simple...
Joined: Aug 2002
Posts: 23,794
Likes: 46
Freak of Nature
Freak of Nature
Joined: Aug 2002
Posts: 23,794
Likes: 46
My wife told me right after we met she didn’t no much about finance and was gonna marry a man who knew about that stuff. Nothing to discuss. She spends money and I figure out how to pay for it.


http://familyfoundationfund.org
Proud descendant of confederate soldiers.
Auburn elitist
Page 1 of 2 1 2

Link Copied to Clipboard
http://www.aldeer.com/" Aldeer.com Copyright 2001-2026 Aldeer LLP.
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 8.0.0
(Release build 20240826)
Responsive Width:

PHP: 7.4.33 Page Time: 0.313s Queries: 55 (0.129s) Memory: 3.1744 MB (Peak: 3.5561 MB) Data Comp: Off Server Time: 2026-08-30 15:40:50 UTC
Valid HTML 5 and Valid CSS