It is exactly about objectives. Im 59 and come from the time when we killed anything with a horn and killing a doe was frowned upon. Then killing a doe with your bow was a trophy. I’ve been the guy in clubs who paid my money and saw others pay the exact same and never do any work and when hunting season came they brought the entire family and guests and killed all they could. Then I started buying little places and leasing bigger places with friends, that brought on a lot of the sane problems because by then I was trying to kill big mature deer. Even my friends had sons and guests and girlfriends that every year they killed young bucks I had watched. It bothered me but not enough to lose my friends over. Now I lease a little land and own some pretty good land and just hunt like I want and if I take people I tell them to shoot what makes them happy and sometimes they kill a young one. It’s all about not being selfish and just trying to have a good time to me now. I can certainly understand how guys in a club with no children or guests that do a lot of work and pay money can get frustrated when they are in a “trophy “ club or lease.