Originally Posted by jwalker77
Originally Posted by Gunpowder
Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you.

Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made.

Yes there is third party involvement that i found out a few weeks ago says that it just happened right before I found out, and tries to validate it because have have been separated for 7 months but i was hanging on to any hope i had apparently she had other plans, and yes i do take marriage seriously with god I promise I’m not perfect but tried everything I knew to do, I know he’s got a plan for me but it’s a hurt I’ve never felt before right now

All men die few ever really live