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#4246010 12/14/24 01:44 PM
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Sucks that’s pretty much it, don’t see how one person can hurt other people in their family so much for no reason other than their just not happy, and can’t give a good explanation of why their not happy, I’m leaning on god for strength and understanding prayers for me and my daughter


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I'm a two time loser. And yes, they suck.


Life is a journey. Make sure and bring plenty of Beer.

My luck has been so bad lately, it could be raining pussies and I'd catch one with a dick broke off in it.
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Hate that for you man. Keep your head up and take care of your daughter and yourself. Anything I can do for you shoot me a PM.

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Really hate it for you. Went through one about 25 years ago.


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Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you.

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I dont think women need a reason to be mad.....I think somedays just waking up is enough.


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Originally Posted by CNC
I dont think women need a reason to be mad.....I think somedays just waking up is enough.

This.

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Originally Posted by Gunpowder
Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you.

Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made.

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Originally Posted by jwalker77
Originally Posted by Gunpowder
Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you.

Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made.

Great post 👆👍🏻


John 3:16: "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life".
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Originally Posted by jwalker77
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Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you.

Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made.

AMEN & Prayers sent tombo

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Originally Posted by jwalker77
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Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you.

Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made.

Yes there is third party involvement that i found out a few weeks ago says that it just happened right before I found out, and tries to validate it because have have been separated for 7 months but i was hanging on to any hope i had apparently she had other plans, and yes i do take marriage seriously with god I promise I’m not perfect but tried everything I knew to do, I know he’s got a plan for me but it’s a hurt I’ve never felt before right now


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Keep your chin up, many of us have been through the same/similar. Keep on keeping on & put your child first.

Painting w’ a broad brush, but if/when there is another suitor involved, there ain’t no changing a woman’s mind. They just gotta find out the hard way the grass ain’t always greener on the other side.


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Originally Posted by Gunpowder
Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you.

Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made.


Man speaks the truth!

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Originally Posted by Narrow Gap
Originally Posted by jwalker77
Originally Posted by Gunpowder
Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you.

Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made.

Great post 👆👍🏻

Maybe. But I've had/have an awesome Stepdad since i was one year old (43 now) sorry but folks can throw Bible quotes at it all day long, but a Toxic Marriage or Relationship is NOT good for the kids...

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Women's biggest problem is thinking that we (Us men) are put on this earth to make them happy....I cant make you happy woman.... mad All I can do is support and care for you,Thats it!....She's got to find happiness within...Get involved in the community, or church, Find a friend, find a hobby, go shop, go wine tasting, Hell, go tell her to go shop with her new friend to the winery to find stuff for her new hobby.... slap crazy I hate what your going thru Tombo that sux....


Did you know that Beer Nutz are over a Dollar...and Deer Nutz are under a Buck...


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Originally Posted by CNC
I dont think women need a reason to be mad.....I think somedays just waking up is enough.


Many of them aren’t even mad. They just don’t feel fulfilled BUT they are also partially busted, empty vessels. You can’t make them happy and they can’t really be happy.

Hate to hear you are going through this. It’s worse when children are involved. I got divorced from a woman I’d been with for 20 years.
Keep your head up, on straight, and make sure to take care of yourself and your daughter.

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Been there it sucks. Prayers to you sir and your daughter.


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Originally Posted by Mdees
Originally Posted by CNC
I dont think women need a reason to be mad.....I think somedays just waking up is enough.


Many of them aren’t even mad. They just don’t feel fulfilled BUT they are also partially busted, empty vessels. You can’t make them happy and they can’t really be happy.

Hate to hear you are going through this. It’s worse when children are involved. I got divorced from a woman I’d been with for 20 years.
Keep your head up, on straight, and make sure to take care of yourself and your daughter.

Yea we’ve been together 20 married for 17 years


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Keep praying and try to hav lov in your heart - do the best u can and what right for u and kid with lov n heart and lov her while she there

I am in it for the long haul - never plan to get a divorce and marriage aint easy - but if something ever happened - i would be 1 and done. Was an old bachelor once - life was very simple and easy single

Will say some prayers for you


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My advice. Been down this road. My first wife’s mom was on husband # 4 when we married. That was flags everywhere I missed. Ex wife is on husband # 4 according to to our daughter. On marriage # 2 now for 12 years. Happy as a kid on Christmas Day.


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