Originally Posted by buck_buster
Originally Posted by mikewhandley
Originally Posted by Lockjaw
Anyone on here gone after it? Were you successful?

I have an ex that is giving me fits, and has dropped vistation days without asking of course, and just generally has been freeloading off my generosity. Her CS is so low, I figure I could easily double or triple it.

Kids and divorce is a life sentence.


Good Luck. I was blessed with a deadbeat ex-wife. She lost custody when the kids were 4 & 2 back in 1999. Seldom exercised visitation & never paid without it being withheld. So, she worked under the table if she worked at all. I did carry her back to court when the kids were 16 & 14 and she owed over $50,000 in back child support, mainly because she kept causing trouble. She cried on the stand and the Judge bought her sad story hook line and sinker. She passed earlier this year owing around $75,000 in back child support so there isn't no collecting now. The state never did anything, the courts never did anything.

Good Luck and I hope you are successful. My experience is if she wasn't screwing me, the state of Alabama and our court system was there to take up the slack.



Imagine it was you who was behind...


A dad is usually arrested to failure to pay CS, but in Cov. Co., I have seem some women arrested for that as well. My thought is always, "How the heck do you expect someone to pay CS if maybe they are actually struggling financially and adding all the fees associated with an arrest doesn't help the problem since they definitely cannot work if they are sitting in the pokey."

If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.---Winnie the Pooh