When I got custody of my son, I didn't even ask for CS even though I paid CS for 9 years... I knew it was going to be a stupid low amount and she would never be able to pay it because she is a loser that will not work. Lawyer did tell me I could take her back when I wanted to... He is 13 now, He knows she does not pay for anything, we live two very different lifestyles. She has two other kids by a loser that will not work either, they live with his mom and another live in son... She barely gets him anything for his birthday, and Christmas. Barely shows up for sporting events. I could wish bad on her, but I don't know how worse it could get for her... She will have to bear that cross... If you don't need the money, don't even worry about it. Do right by your kids and let the Lord handle the rest Good luck fighting the good fight, there are many dads that would give their last to have our problems....