Unless she has had a substantial increase in income since the original CS was set, I don't see you getting much traction on trying to get more CS from her. And, while I might feel empathy for my kid whose parent keeps blowing them off and not seeing them, I would do everything I could to try to provide the best life for that child anyway and let the child figure out where to place that parent on their own in terms of a relationship going forward. Most kids figure out on their own who was there for them and who wasn't.


If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.---Winnie the Pooh