Unfortunately I also have learned your own kin can be incredibly greedy and couldn’t care less whether you get anything or live or die. I thought me and my cousin were close until my grandmother passed away. She left everything to my dad as executor and when my dad passes everything is left to me and my cousin. There’s land, a house, some money all in a trust. I dread the day it comes down to me and cousin. Shameful the way some folks can be